Tattoos are really looked down upon in India. Only lower caste “untouchables” get them. I wonder if TJ’s family don’t like her for her “Classy Broad” tattoos? There are a hundred other reasons not to like her, I know, but I think his family was put off by those ink marks on her.

The only sane and honest person right from the start is Yash.

“She’s not compatible with our family”

TJ has just been gaslighting her into thinking the apartment was a temporary solution until they move somewhere else.

Truth is, TJ knew right from the start he’s going to be living with Yash for their entire lives. And Yash was the only one who pointed that out.

I have felt frustrated enough to scream and bang my head in a relationship. I’m not proud of it, I’m ashamed. I feel shame towards myself for hurting and humiliating myself, especially for someone who didn’t care about me. I knew he wasn’t listening to me and I was trying to get his attention to make him care. I didn’t even want to be in the relationship, every time I tried to break up and discuss how we would move out of the shared apartment he would beg me to stay to work on the relationship. It was my first live-in relationship and I didn’t know how to get out. I was raised by parents who hated each other and I thought that was normal. They always told me not to be a quitter. I really thought that I made my bed, now I have to sleep in it for the rest of my life. One day after renewing the lease, he moved out suddenly and left me on the hook for double the rent. At that point I begged him to stay because I was terrified. It took me time to see that it was the best thing that ever happened to me. If he hadn’t left we might have been married, might have had children together, and he would still be in my life. Instead he quickly went on to marry somebody else and then skipped out on her and the wedding bills right after the ceremony. 10 years on and my life is amazing: I have the most incredible husband, a career I love, a house with character, my family. It is possible to have a healthy and happy relationship. I know Kimberley looks really crazy but I get it. I hope she can sort out her life like I did.

She is insufferable

Her situation overall (gaslighting, narc husband) is similar to my practice marriage. It was hell, brutal and painful. At least she has a voice and isn’t afraid to speak up. I kept quiet until I couldn’t take it anymore and left (when it got physical with myself and him pushing our 3yo.) Sure, screaming at the top of your lungs doesn’t work and makes you look psychotic, but that’s what they want to happen.

Such shit for her.

Okay but we can agree that Kim needs to gtfo WITHOUT Giving her pass for her Terrible Actions such as but not limited to:

-Complaining and calling names when her apartment wasn’t exactly as she expected. Tends to lash out and name call the minute things don’t go her way -Starting a fight with future brother in law who is out taking her shopping (yash is a tool but her anger added more tension) -She called Yash a dick head (?) infront of TJ despite him expressing how rude / upsetting that language is to him -On the way to the wedding venue she HIT AND RAN on a rickshaw while driving in India. Claiming “as long as you don’t hit a cow, it’s fine” Golly Gee hope the People were ok??? We don’t know because Kim did not care to check. And decided to laugh about. -TJ was afraid to say anything about the damage on his car from the accident for fear of setting Kim off. -Lived in India for a Year and didn’t bother learn any Hindi. Not even conversational. -(Petty) Kim Calling Jenny a cunt when she didn’t agree with her.

Like of course her situation is miserable and would take a toll on ANYONES mental health but let’s not pretend like she wasn’t unhinged, unstable and miserable from the start. She is an emotional “taker” and taxing person. She needs mental health support. And to stop with the self aggrandizement and spiritual narcissism

TLC pulling a Shining on us? Heeeeres KIM!!! Feeels like a rushed ending TBH.

Kimberly’s emotions are 100% justified. She was kept out of decisions from the beginning, was given half- truths or only part of the information so she couldn’t make informed decisions for herself, was brought into a toxic environment where her partner made no attempt to be on her side…. Her disappointment, sadness, anger is all justified.

That being said, she is responsible for her actions. Shrieking in someone’s face very rarely actually makes the situation better. I 100% understand how she got there; I even understood the first time when she arrived at the apartment after traveling for probably 20 hours to find that he had kept her in the dark about the progress on the build. I understand how she gets to that point with all the bullshit (figurative and literal) that family puts her through. She still needs to learn the skills to control herself and set boundaries even though she’s justified in being hurt.

Ya. I feel like if the cameras weren’t there, TJ would probably start laying hands on her. Idk. I just see it in his eyes. She has been trying her best and she is now falling apart. She needs to run!

What’s weird is that he defends her to his family but gaslights and insults her to her face.

Yeah. I know Kimberly catches flack and people tell her she didn’t “do her research” but living there for a year would most certainly be more eye opening than Google, ffs. Not to mention, TJ married her under false pretenses. He assured her she wouldn’t be expected to be a traditional Indian wife and pulled a bait and switch.

I felt so bad for her when she was begging TJ for help. There is nothing worse than begging your spouse for some support and they basically tell you to fuck off. Once, I begged my ex husband to help me when I was in the middle of a panic attack. My face was going numb and I was so stressed over working 15 hours a day and was exhausted. I asked him just to take responsibility for his own dinner for a few days and drive himself to work until the overtime was done. He literally laughed in my face while I was in the middle of a break down. Seeing TJ be so dismissive was so triggering for me. I know Kimberly isn’t perfect, I know she is weird, I know she shouldn’t have married TJ. But, the way he treated her was cruel.

I feel like everyone forgot that Kim told her husband’s brother months ago how she really feels about living with the family. She does not like them and repels their generosity. Should she have been told Indian wife customs by her husband? Yes. Does google exist? Also, yes.

Kim brings an American individualistic outlook going into a culture of collectivism and she is resistant to learning how to be a part of HER new family.

Jenny clocked her in that preview for the tell-all, “entitled little brat.”

Clearly, she isn’t getting up at 5 AM to make breakfast for the family and do chores around the house. Can’t help but believe this also extends to her “wifely” duties, because her husband seems to want her gone.

Kimberly knew what she was getting into when she went to India. I’m sure knew abut the culture in India so it shouldn’t have been a surprise to her. She thinks she entitled and when the little girl doesn’t get her way that’s when the bullshit starts.!

i woulda started screaming way sooner in that convo…

The last we saw of Kimberly was two days after the wedding. She was happy and fixing up the apartment then the poop and pee fiasco and then it is 3-4 months later and she is despondent with depression and feels hopeless and trapped. Why did production not go get updates on her? We knew her formal duties were commencing, we new she had declared her independence to do things her way….why did they not get scenes of her decline. I feel kind of cheated. We see her death scream and TJ running to mummy and the next thing we know she is in a NY studio filming The Tell All. After the buildup for months, I feel the story pre-climax was missed. Maybe they will have a The Other Way More To Love with deleted scenes before Monday that will include what all we missed.