Kimberly’s emotions are 100% justified. She was kept out of decisions from the beginning, was given half- truths or only part of the information so she couldn’t make informed decisions for herself, was brought into a toxic environment where her partner made no attempt to be on her side…. Her disappointment, sadness, anger is all justified.

That being said, she is responsible for her actions. Shrieking in someone’s face very rarely actually makes the situation better. I 100% understand how she got there; I even understood the first time when she arrived at the apartment after traveling for probably 20 hours to find that he had kept her in the dark about the progress on the build. I understand how she gets to that point with all the bullshit (figurative and literal) that family puts her through. She still needs to learn the skills to control herself and set boundaries even though she’s justified in being hurt.

Tiffany is gorgeous and doesn’t deserve the hate she gets just because she’s bigger. There, I said it.

His biggest flex is somebody else’s appearance? Big yikes my boi.

Danielle’s sin is that she told Yohan that she would get him a greencard and that they would live in the USA together so that he could make enough money to send back to his family, but instead she showed up in the DR for a “visit” and dropped it on him that she was moving there.

Was it a shitty move? Absolutely. Does she deserve the level of hate she gets (especially after what an absolute douche nugget he’s turned out to be)? Absolutely not.

I agree, the bat is extremely low for this couple. They’ve done nothing but scream at each other for I don’t even know how many seasons. Just talking like and adult shouldn’t be noteworthy, but here we are.

All reality is scripted, or at the very least deeply manipulated. I’m not reacting to reality tv because I think it’s real, I’m reacting because I think it’s interesting

What I heard is her saying was that she should not have done it ANYWAY but especially knowing now that he quit his job she realizes how wrong it was of her because it’s allowed her to see how selfish she was. It wasn’t shifting blame, it was acknowledging that new information shaped her perspective, as it does for all of us. As far as the money from Dane, that’s a whole other can of worms. I’m in now way justifying her behaviour, what she did sucks, I’m just appreciating the progress in having a calm, rational conversation without insults or screaming.