I have been on hrt for 8 months and I figured it would have done something before now but I have recently had a sudden and unexpected drop in libido and I am finding it really distressing and hard to deal with, I have always been shall we say a high drive person but now its nothing other than wishing I had that because it was fun in the past but I am basically getting no enjoyment out of anything more than cuddling and I have absolutely no idea what to do because everything was going absolutely amazing until just recently but suddenly I have absolutely no drive to do it and don’t really enjoy it when I do try

I feel bad for my partner even though they insist it is fine but also I just really strongly dislike the lack of drive for and enjoyment from it

Does this get better/ will I adjust to it or is there a way to fix it

I am currently only on estradiol enanthate injections once per week every week and have been consistently for 8-9 months and this is a sudden change within the past maybe 2 weeks

Kinda rant ish but I am literally crying writing it so I’m not getting better out rn

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    tbh i have no idea, i heard progesterone hightens it a bunch but i think it’s best to ask your prescribing physician abt it I wish the best of luck to you as a pre-hrt trans girl ^^

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      I have been told progesterone is helpful but I don’t have a physician to get in contact with because I am doing diy due to lack of money and hrt being harder to obtain “legitimately” in my area

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        ohhh, ic maybe it’s the dosage? Have you been able to get blood tests to see how high/low your estrogen/androgen levels are ? Nevertheless ive heard a lot of trans ppl with this same problem so jt could also be a temporary situation that’ll resolve on it’s own. Idk tho, never been able to get hrt wishing you the best of luck ^^

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          I have been trying to get blood testing but it has been a struggle to first get the money saved and now find a way I can get the tests preferably without being outed as trans

          I really need to avoid it until December at the very least but given how the government is going it may be a problem given my state Is one of the worst in the united states for trans people

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            tbh the entirety of the u.s is bad to be in for a trans person i think ;-; best of luck to you!!

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              It is but I am in one of the states that invented the “bathroom bill” and I have a neonazi group based less than 5 minutes from my house

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                  Still not as bad as Florida or some places in Texas but it is nowhere near somewhere I would actually like to be when it comes to the political climate

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        oh also if you’re buying your stuff online, it could be that you got the “weaker stuff” (less concentrated; depends on manufacterer and type). if you have someone that gets you the stuff, you should ask them instead if you’re making the stuff from scratch then i would reccomend buying it if you can

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          I got it from a mutual aid group but it is Estradiol Enanthate from Open Gate Labs

          It is a 10ml vial at 40mg/ml and I am taking a tenth of a ml (4mg) via the thigh once per week because that is what I had been told to start at.

          Sadly I haven’t had a chance to even get my first blood test yet but I am trying to

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          plz dont feel alarmed tho wa ><

          its usual for hormones to screw with your libido and general mood; it’s a second puberty, after all

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            I wasnt alarmed because it happened, I was really bothered because I assumed it taking effect on that would take less than the 8-9 months I have been on it and it was a sudden change despite no change in the dose I am doing