I feel like I get treated like a space alien for this.

  • AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app
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    3 days ago

    Suuupppeerrr insecure when I was younger (ok ok a bit now too, just a bit I promise) and I hated it (both oral and myself at the time lol) … but after finding my first long term partner and slowly opening up (heh) it became more and more awesome, and I am now a total convert… but it took a few years to get out of my head about it!

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    3 days ago

    To each their own. That should be enough.

    Do I enjoy it? Yes. But I can live without easily. I also prefer giving it rather than receiving it.

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    3 days ago

    I like it myself. But ultimately, it doesn’t matter, everyone has their own preferences and they’re all valid.

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    3 days ago

    I don’t hate it, but it doesn’t really feel like anything to me. One of my ex partners was so excited to show off her blow job skills on me cause she said she was really good at it, but it didn’t really do anything for me so I was just kind of lying there awkwardly and she was clearly disappointed. I’d much rather give than receive.

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    3 days ago

    Nah, I’m the absolute opposite. If I had to give up either oral or penetrative sex for the rest of my life, I’d choose penetrative, which I’ve been ridiculed in the past for. But like you, I like what I like and receiving oral to me has always been my favourite.

    But there’s no judgement here, we like what we like and you shouldn’t be treated any different because of that. As long as you like to give oral, wed get on fine

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    3 days ago

    I am so-so with it. It can feel nice, but I have only managed to get off from a blowjob a few times. It is still fun, though.