It’s a 50/50 split for me. I’m not a mind reader, so I like to get some obvious hints or signals if I can approach my partner for some alone time. But being approached with no previous warning is a turn on for me.

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    1 month ago

    I prefer a split. Though for this to make sense, both myself and my partner have to have a relatively similar sex drive. Right now we do not, so it’s on her to initiate so I don’t feel rejected so often.