There’s so many lingerie options for women, but with guys the options seem to be wearing women’s lingerie or novelty stuff (underwear where the cock is an elephant truck etc)

I’m a fan of leather and uniforms myself.

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    5 hours ago

    While I am attracted to most men (and people in general), in men I generally appreciate femininity. Shaved legs, grabbable hips, clean shaved dick.

    Outside of that cages, skirts, light makeup, etc are also attractive.

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    17 hours ago

    Chiming in with a mostly off topic, joke response.

    Bondage.

    As a more serious answer, I’m not attracted to men. However, I lack a barrier to engaging in sexual activity with men. It doesn’t bother me, as long as there’s something else involved that does fulfill my needs.

    Thus the joke answer isn’t fully a joke. In my salad days, I would top men occasionally. BDSM is enough of a turn on that I could maintain an erection while working a submissive, if they needed to be fucked for their fulfilment. It was very difficult to achieve orgasm though. Most times I couldn’t unless I had assistance in that regard from a woman.

    If I were to ever get back into that scene, I would be far less willing to work with a man, but if I did it anyway, some nice leather straps and well chosen rope make anyone more attractive.

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      I think I’m your mirror opposite - I have zero attraction to women, but dominance is appealing regardless of gender. It’s authority, a confident person who thinks of my body as a tool for them to use, which I really look for.

      I’ve had encounters with men similar to you - sometimes the fact that I have a vagina makes them more eager to penetrate me despite my male appearance, but I’ve also had men just want to hit me/tie me up.

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    22 hours ago

    Anything that shows off the abs and chest. I like the classic jeans and open flannel shirt. I really love swim suits/board shorts.

    I’m not really a fan of skimpy. Skip the jock straps or banana hammocks with bikini-small straps. Pants that don’t show off the size of the penis underneath the clothing are amazing, because being surprised by a monster springing out is always breath-taking.

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    24 hours ago

    My wife always liked it when I fit into my old uniforms and role played it out for her. Definitely something enjoyed by all sexes it seems (uniforms and role playing).

    Edit: Adding specifics even though I’m kinda embarrassed… Naval uniform, Utility Belt with boxers and construction boots; Power Plant foreman outfit; IT Nerd; Carpentar who came to ‘fix the bed’; and even tried plumber once.

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    21 hours ago

    I may be weird in that I feel more like a combination pansexual and demisexual. Personality is what turns me on; how someone looks does literally nothing. At the same time, I don’t need to know someone to sleep with them, but it is better if I do. 🤷‍♂️