• grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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        I’ve never heard that before but that’s really illuminating. I never really thought of sex as being framed so differently between different people.

        Like sex to me feels like working out with someone you really like.

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    Talking to someone who is excited about something and infodumping on me. Almost whatever it is. When someone is that excited about something, I get excited about it too.

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    Spending time with my kids.

    Watching my children have that revelatory understanding of something that up until that moment was a mystery.

    Spending quiet time with the wife and no kids.

    Kids take over everything, don’t they?

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    Justice. But besides that (especially because it’s so rare at larger scales), I guess just being at peace with all bills paid and my loved ones being in good health. 👍

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    Probably trees. Like looking up into a big tree… I feel my mind moving up into the branches and I lose myself for a moment. I look around at trees and I can’t believer I get to exist at the same time as these gorgeous things.

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    Being helpful. It’s my life ambition to always be in the right place at the right time when someone might need help. When someone’s in trouble, and I have or know exactly what’s necessary to avert a crisis (even a small one), I get warm inside.

    I love being prepared for trouble, especially small troubles. I like seeing the relief on someone’s face when a serious inconvenience has been avoided. It’s one of the reasons my backpack is so heavy, lol.

    I want to be the most helpful stranger.

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    Being a goofball with my husband. Once we get going it ends up with me crying laughing and him laughing so hard he is going to throw up.

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    Sitting outside with my cats, especially if I leave my phone elsewhere. Reread the prompt; the most joy comes from my wife affirming that I’m a good person