As a sub, what would you most wish for? want to avoid?

As a top, how would your reward your good sub? your bad sub?

(What other question(s) did I miss?)

Obviously, there are no right or wrong answers , and other potential outcomes depending on your own D/s dynamics - simply would love to hear from both subs and Doms/Dommes…

    • b9999998@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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      1 year ago

      You’ve been very well trained then. With the cum eating, do you consider that a punishment or reward (or ?)

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        1 year ago

        Uhhh my relationship with it is complicated. It’s easier when it’s a ruined orgasm because I’m still horny. When I have a full orgasm I don’t enjoy the cum eating nearly as much, but it’s thinking about doing then that I fantasize about…

        So idk. It’s more about delivery ig. Licking my cum off the floor is a punishment, licking my cum out of my domme’s pussy is the expectation.

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          1 year ago

          Hmm. I always want to do cum eating then decide not to do it after I’ve had an orgasm… maybe ruined orgasms so I go through with the cum eating is something I should play with after all!

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            1 year ago

            It works. The trick is to commit, immediately. Don’t let yourself relax and relax into your refractory period. Self facials are also good for this.

            Personally I struggle the most with eating my cum off of my body like if I cum on my stomach/chest because the act of trying to scoop it all with your fingers just isn’t very sexy. Ruining into a cup or onto a plate or something works well.