• roux [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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      1 month ago

      I’ve lost my shit with people over this lol. Just sucks when you are like 3 hours in on something and then someone just comes along and makes small talk.

      I was fired from my last job because I was expected to write features AND do helpdesk support at the same time and just no… I was also fired because I suck at programming but still…

      • TankieTanuki [he/him]@hexbear.net
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        1 month ago

        I live at home and my little siblings with ADHD* knock on the door to tell me stuff all the time ughhh

        *I have ADHD too which is why it’s extra tragic when I lose my train of thought.

        • roux [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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          I have ASD so once I get into that hyperfocus flowstate, and get pulled out of it, it’s like everything around me just shatters lol. My partner and oldest kid have ADHD so when either or both are around I mostly don’t even bother with code. I was able to get a tiny bit of stuff done this morning but it was mostly stuff I have on mental autopilot like git stuff.

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      Learn to document more. It gets a little better with age once you must resign yourself to the fact that you will be interrupted at any point. If you document, you can resume easier and there’s less mind shift inertia.