How would you describe your genitalia? Are you confident about it, or if not, why not?

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  • Majorllama@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    Above average, but nothing to write home about.

    As long as my partners are satisfied I am happy with the tools my genetics gave me.

    Confidence high. Primarily because most of my exes apparently rate me highly. On more than one occasion a friend of an ex has hit me up specifically because they heard the way my ex talked about me. I know that reads like the biggest r/ihavesex bullshit in the universe but it has happened enough times for me to notice the pattern.

  • carnalxxx@lemmynsfw.comB
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    4 hours ago

    I’m still a bit anxious about the size of my cock, mostly because of the “size queen’s” chasing the largest cock all the time so you feel like you’re written off !

  • TheVoiceDude@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 hours ago

    I don’t have the world’s largest cock by any stretch of the term, but I like to think that it’s at least big enough and has some nice shape to it. When I was a young teen I was very envious of other men with massive cocks featured in both gay and straight porn, (though mostly gay porn because that’s often where you see the most impressive ones). I remember wanting to try penis pumps and other enlargement techniques to get it bigger, mostly because I just wanted to have a cock that was as beautiful as the ones I’d seen in porn. Plus, nothing feels better than being able to grip your massively hard cock as a man (especially if you love cocks like I do). I would be fine with maybe an extra inch or two, but I’m happy with what I do have. I’ve taken an aphrodisiac before that made me grow an extra inch or so and made me super girthy too! I would do that a hundred more times even just to admire how big and beautiful it looks! LOL

  • JerkinIt@lemmynsfw.com
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    21 hours ago

    I can think of exactly two situations where someone who would want to know what my peepus looks like, and in both cases, it’s better for me to just show the dang thing.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    24 hours ago

    I grew up before there were beauty standards for pussies, so yeah, I don’t have any hangups around that. Mom of plenty of kids, and I love mine for surviving that and still giving me so much pleasure. Like, I can’t care about how it looks, it’s been so functional. I know there are women who have trouble getting off and I really never have. Clit so small on the outside I thought it was not a physical thing just an area until I learned some were bigger like “buttons” but that has never gotten in the way, or perhaps is an advantage in some way. Inside and outside lips like what I think of as the normal look, not a tucked away arrangement.

    I’ve had plenty of body hangups over my life but never about the genitals. Everyone’s bits are funny looking and that’s way ok.

    • Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.orgOP
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      24 hours ago

      @RBWellsV23 you talk about yours beautifully and confidently. I don’t have any beauty standards for pussies, they are all beautiful. Their beauty is in their changeability and malleability, and of course their responsiveness. I guess the same as a cock becoming erect and sticky with precum, there’s something beautiful about a pussy swelling full of blood, ripening, lips parting a little, supersensitised so a touch of that clit sends a jolt and it flutters and tightens as I push inside 😍

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com
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    17 hours ago

    I’m a bit self conscious about my penis because it’s very curved to the left, but my gf loves it, and it’s quite thick and the curvature helps me reach her G-spot in some angles. Still, I think My dick would look larger if it was completely straight, but I’m okay with what nature gave me. Not too big but not small either

  • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    22 hours ago

    I’ve always felt excellent about my bits! Absolutely lovely. I’ve never been picky about my partners’ bits in the past, but during The Reveal I had ages ago with my Forever Partner, I was stunned at how perfect their bits are, too.

  • loveshame@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 hours ago

    My crotch is known to the haggard denizens of the margins of civilization as a mythic beast whose furious bloodlust is channeled only by the future position of Saturn. Legions of imperial forces have been reduced to a broken wake—an omen—of burned and twisted armor; this path of wreckage is the only pattern. Kings, prophets, wizards, tacticians, and metaphysicians have failed to predict the vastness of the legendary devastation. Death herself has remained a shimmering silhouette on the horizon. The only relevant limit is the sanity of the beholder.

  • sporkyspig@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 hours ago

    When I was younger I was really self conscious since I am uncircumcised in the US. I have never had any complaints from sexual partners though, which is really all that matters.

  • Onno (VK6FLAB)@lemmy.radio
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    1 day ago

    With words and gestures. I’m pretty confident that I’ll be able to manage both, having done so for all of this century and at least a quarter of the previous one.

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    23 hours ago

    I wouldn’t describe my genitals without a good reason to do so.

    For one, nobody really wants to know randomly, so it would be rude.

    For another, it’s a pointless endeavour; a description is going to be a matter of trust. If someone trusts me that implicitly and wants to know what my dick and balls look like in detail, I might show them if they have a good need and if I trust them implicitly. If they don’t trust me, it doesn’t matter what I say, they wouldn’t believe me, so fuck them for asking.

    It isn’t about confidence, I’m happy with my junk. At this point in my life, confidence isn’t an issue with my body. It’s just a meat suit, and how it looks to others is about as useful as the last poop I flushed.

    That being said, since you asked, let me untie it from around my waist and see if I can get it all in my vision at once ;)

  • instructions_unclear92@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 hours ago

    I think I would have to call my penis “fine.” I do wish I wasn’t circumcised, though. As far as confidence, I would say overall yes. I’m more concerned with knowing how to use it than with the hardware itself.