Oh my gosh it was actually scary seeing how mad he got at the most basic questions. He takes everything as a personal attack, and instantly launches into a defensive position. He gaslights and manipulates to his advantage. And his eyes are absolutely scary when he’s mad, I can only imagine what he’s like w/o cameras…

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    Sophie is right about having a bathroom in the apartment and basic necessities in a apartment. The apartment is unsafe as is and walking to the bathroom at 2am just to go pee is unsafe as is. She’s not being a brat asking for an apartment with a bathroom, it’s a basic necessity to have an apartment with a bathroom. I’m currently living in an apartment and don’t have to walk to a bathroom outside to go pee or take a shower that’s shared by everyone in the apartment complex.

    I don’t think Sophie is being bratty with wanting a bathroom in the apartment. I do disagree with her saying she’s rich but she’s living off of grandpa.

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    I didn’t realize how young she is - I’m actually a bit scared for her. She might have to ask her family for help at some point!

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    He has shark eyes which is referring to. There’s not much upstairs not only is he depressing, but he’s very controlling, moody, depressing, and if he doesn’t like when somebody says he just walks away, he doesn’t care about anybody’s feelings, especially his fiancé’s. Yes, I believe he’s got abuser vibes I’ve seen it she needs to go bye-bye she’s too young to put up with this child.

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    She just got there too. Imagine how much meaner he’d be after sharing that tiny space for awhile and he starts to feel tired of her.

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    He strikes me as too wimpy to actually beat a woman–he’s like that person who is from Naperville but claims they’re from the South side of Chicago to look tough. Maybe more of a mental abuser. Like a mixed Christian, basically, i.e. everything is your fault and I never, ever do anything wrong.

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    So defensive. Really insecure. I did laugh when she told him she dies not want kuds and he said even jay z and beyonce have kids. What a turd

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    He’s super insecure

    Sells himself as having a certain lifestyle in reality he’s broke living in overpriced apartment that doesn’t even have a bathroom

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    I had to flee an abusive marriage twenty years ago, and much like Sophie, I was halfway across the world, isolated from everyone I’d ever known and completely dependent on my husband. It was the darkest period of my life, and at some points I didn’t think I would make it out alive. I had to plot and plan in order to leave him, and do it in a way that ensured he would not suspect anything, because I knew the minute he found out I was leaving him, my chances of survival got much smaller. Over a few weeks’ time, my parents and I came up with an idea that we thought would work. You see, I had found out that I was pregnant about a month before, and we had been quite surprised as we did not think we’d be able to have children. So I convinced him that I wanted to go back home for a week or two to celebrate with my mom and spend time with family. I did absolutely nothing to give him any indication that I was thinking about leaving him. When packing for the trip, I only brought things that I would need for that visit - nothing else. I knew that if he saw me packing sentimental stuff, he would wise up. The morning that he drove me to the airport in Nuremberg - I remember it was a Sunday - was the last time I ever saw him. I have never recovered any of my items that were abandoned in Germany.

    All of this is to say that it’s quite honestly very difficult for me to watch Robert’s scenes, because he reminds me so much of my ex husband. The manipulation is next level with this asshole. I’m worried for Sophie.

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    1000%

    He has the maturity of a 13 yr old. And the emotional maturity of a 9 yr old

    Whoever raised him, failed greatly