Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?
The ability to not give a fuck about what others think about them, showing people close to them that they care about them and tries to help out anyway that they can, showing appreciation when someone does something for them.
I see these qualities in my (guy) friend which is why I had a crush on him. Also he kinda looks like Leon Kennedy sooo…👀
You had me at Leon. Go get him! Be his Ada
Throwing themselves at me sexually. If I’m not going to have to make a lot of effort for it the person gets way more attractive to me, even if they’re not someone I’d typically go for. Conversely I’ve lost interest in a lot of very attractive women when they made it clear they were playing hard to get or just weren’t very sexual in general.
I believe the term is “ecstatic consent”.
It is confidence. It is always always always confidence. Close the thread there’s your answer for everything.
But then you run into the dunning kruger effect. Way too many assholes and idiots with obscene amounts of it
Badminton skills
Squeaky trainers on a gym floor
It’s 2: Intelligent and kind
Unapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.… according to Wikipedia, body symmetry
Other qualities tend to rely on frequency of interaction and are not instant
I’m attracted to women with a more traditionally masculine personality or presentation. The helpers/protectors. Or non-binary. Bonus points if their whole Look is to deliberately intimidate strangers.
TL;DR image basically this but in all black.
Is this what’s known as mommy issues?
Not in my case my family was good I’m just born fucked up.
Understanding and compassion. Kindness. I’ve been with enough women in my time to be able to definitively say that the HOTTEST woman in the universe yet a total bitch would not be able to hold a candle to a homely kind hearted gal.
Being hot and horny does it for me.
Most people are going to say personality, but I am going to go with breast size.
A quote (or mis-quote) from “So I Married an Axe Murderer” https://youtu.be/W_ENWgPmXnY?t=134
The larger the personality the better!
Huge…tracts of land!
You know that crossed-over leg ballerina pose that some girls do waiting for a bus?
Yeah I hate that. Don’t do that.
happiness
There’s no cheat code to get them to like you, dude.
Didn’t say it was for me
Of course, it’s for a friend
I confuse “attractive” and “naked” on a regular basis. I frequently have to remind myself to consider if I am seeing an attractive person, or just a person who currently is not wearing many clothes.
I, uh… think most people are pretty unattractive when they’re naked.
And here I am with a diametrically opposite opinion.
