Ouuuf how do we feel about this ladies and gents. He said he doesn’t think it was stealing because of hey are married and yet he tried to hide it from her. He says he took about 2000 pesos (anout $110 USD) im just wondering what he needs the money for or what he spent it on. What do you think? Was he wrong ? Do you think it’s okay?

  • OneBag962@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Danielle said Yohan gives her cash for the rent…and he started making these withdrawals on the 15th right? Maybe he’s giving her her own cash every month. 😂

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    1 year ago

    He hid it from her for a reason. He could barely look at the camera when he was trying to make this excuse. He knew what he did was wrong

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    1 year ago

    If my spouse needs to take my card to the ATM, he 100% asks first. That’s how that works. We aren’t entitled to each other’s funds just because we are married.

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      1 year ago

      Exactly ! We have a shared account and we always ask each other about non necessity purchases.

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    It was wrong of him to take the money without asking here and then lying about it BUT Danielle has such a weird attitude around their finances. She always says “my money” which is not right for a married couple, imo. My wife and I share everything. If either of us are making a big purchase, we talk to each other, but it’s our money, not mine, not hers.

    What I hate most about Danielle is how she acts like she’s such a fiscally responsible person. Uhhh, didn’t you rack up 100k worth of toll road tickets and you basically had to leave the USA because you are fucking bankrupt? Idiot.

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      1 year ago

      It’s likely “ your money” because you both either work and are contributing fairly equally or one is home with kids by mutual agreement. I have real problems with one spouse making substantially less unless there are kids, and feeling like they’re entitled to take money from the spouse who makes more without asking.

      My brothers wife refused to work despite having a degree and no kids. She was a hoarder and slob, their house had mice and roaches. He stayed with her 14 years before divorcing and she got 7 years of significant spousal support. It was the most unfair thing I’d ever seen.

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    1 year ago

    He should have been honest about it - Yes, I took the money. Don’t throw the rock then hide your hand, Own your mess. I agree with a lot of the comments, she is using money as a way to control him; but don’t take her money and lie about it.

    If I am going to get money from my spouse and I am going to let them know I took it and vice versa.

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    He was mad because he went through with this charade all to find out getting american $$ isn’t going to be easy. To be fair she is in a marriage and everything is tit for tat and makes him feel indebted to her. So it’s not like she was clueless that maybe the marriage was a finacial arrangement for him more than love at first sight.

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    1 year ago

    Danielle basically dangles a dollar on a fishing rod over his head and lures it in when he tries for it.

    Is taking it without asking cool? No. But if I took my husbands money then told him at a later date he likely wouldn’t care that much as long as it wasn’t an insane amount.

    At the end of the day, you’re married and really need to treat each other as equals.

    With that said, Yohan needs a job but Danielle needs to quit trying to control him with money.

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    1 year ago

    They are both using each other for different reasons. She is just mad bc she wants him to truly love her and he never has. She wanted a boy toy, and she got one. I feel no sympathy for her.

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    1 year ago

    No different from Jasmine doing it for that botched ass job. They’re both there for the money and the green card

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    1 year ago

    He’s not wrong. He used the money to eat and probably help his family. He can’t afford the lifestyle Danielle has imposed on them. Danielle shoud’ve stayed in his family house because that’s what them as a couple can afford. If he wanted to steal from her he would’ve taken more than just 160$. Gino give Jasmine money without any issues and I feel Jasmine and Yohan serve the same purpose…they are in transactional relationships. Yohan would get a green card and some money while in the DR and Danielle gets to enjoy a man with a baby leg between his legs.

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    1 year ago

    I don’t think she’s horrible because she refuses to be used and abused… a man should just as much effort in the relationship including finances.