Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.
For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!
I was talking about this recently with some friends and my husband. A friend of mine was under the belief that the wife fucking anyone else was automatically cuckolding.
I spent a while explaining that the two are not the same, and that humiliation can be part of it for either party or neither.
A man could “force” his wife to fuck other men (or women) for his own enjoyment to humiliate and objectify her, or she could fuck other people to humiliate him, or they could fuck other people to entertain and amuse their partner because it’s fun.
I don’t have a jealous bone in my body and just… like the idea of my husband fucking other women. There isn’t an element of humiliation or shame in it for me, I just like that he feels good, like sharing, like fucking in pretty much any combination.
You’re in the minority, but definitely not alone.
By definition, a person who’s partner sleeps with someone else is a cuckold but that isn’t necessarily related to the cuckoldry fetish.
*only if it violates the agreements of the relationship with respect to monogamy.
Exactly, this would be the case in a monogamous relationship, but I don’t think is true in the case of non-monogamous relationships.
I am not attacking you, but just curious why we still use the phrase “sleeping with”? No one is sleeping with anyone they are fucking