Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.

For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Ah, that would make more sense with the specific origin of the ‘key party’.

    My grandpa used to be fairly important in early Boeing’s middle, then upper management.

    He once personally met… well… sort of…

    He at one point met with Howard Hughes, but in a bathroom at Boeing Field.

    No, not gay stuff: Hughes had flown up from Cali (he was a pilot so he just flew himself around) with a briefcase with… presumably business documents, possibly blueprints, and had instructed Boeing to send somebody to go to that bathroom, at a specific time, and … slide briefcases between stalls, and then leave at seperate times, as if nothing had occured.

    … And my grandpa got picked to be Boeing’s man for that.

    … Yeah.

    So what I’m trying to say is my grandpa was in the Navy, was fairly important to early Boeing… knew a lot fly boys and people generally in aviation.

    Makes sense he’d go their key parties, lol.

    Like me, (though he would not have realized it), grandpa was autistic as fuck, quite often very blunt, quite often not really caring about many social norms.

    Like, he told us all about the key party thing as casual conversation over a big family Easter dinner.

    When I was maybe… 10? 11?

    He genuienly did not think it was that innapropriate, figured I was old enough at that point.

    I’ve never seen my Nana blush more than that dinner. She practically hissed at him.

    … He is also the reason that elsewhere on lemmy, I have gotten angry at various academic definitions for 40s/50s era slang terms…

    Not only because I can find examples in extant texts and argue my different usages … but because I was quite enamored with WW2 history as a young kid, and my grandpa was happy to tell me about the era, as he managed to not get PTSD, … I’d just ask him about various slang terms I was reading about in old newspapers and interviews, propoganda reels and such.

    He was a land station based radio operator for the Navy… he basically just lived in Hawaii in near total safety for the whole war, him and Nana would frequently winter there, untill she passed away, at least.

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      10 days ago

      I love when old(er) folk have great adventures and anecdotes to share. And proceed to share them.

      He at one point met with Howard Hughes, but in a bathroom at Boeing Field. No, not gay stuff

      That qualification gave me a good chuckle. Thanks, cheers, and enjoy your holiday!