• girltwink@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I have a schedule that has events going out until 6+ months from now. How do you survive with adult responsibilities without doing that?

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      11 months ago

      By not having so many events I need to schedule them 6 months out. You should give it a try, works wonders.

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        11 months ago

        So you don’t schedule any doctor appointments and never buy tickets to concerts or other events in the future? Huh…

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          11 months ago

          Not 6+ months out why tf would I have to wait 6 months for a Dr’s appointment?? The only thing I schedule that far in advance is a holiday at a destination that takes longer than 5 hours to drive to.

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              11 months ago

              Really? I started seeing one within a week but I live in a rural mountain town.

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              11 months ago

              The trick is to find one that isn’t just filling their schedules with plastic surgeries.

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            11 months ago

            I think this is the difference between people living in super populated areas, and more rural ones. I have no issue getting a close appointment in Ohio, but it’s much more difficult in Los Angeles (w/o going to the ER).

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            11 months ago

            Usually you schedule your next appointment when you’re finishing the first one so you don’t forget. Then they’ll send you a bunch of reminder texts leading up to it lol

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            11 months ago

            In Germany for specialists it’s quite normal.

            My dermatologist only makes appointments 3 to 6 months in advance. Same with my pulmonologist. I heard psychologist appointments are often enough between one and two years in advance (if you want to start a new therapy).

            Vacation is another such thing. Some employers require you to plan your vacation time at the beginning of the year so they don’t end up with a whole department being gone at the same time. Of course I need to factor that into my calender then so I don’t put other appointments/promises in there.

            Weddings and large birthday parties are also often announced and planned far ahead. I need to block that in my calender as well.

            And so on.

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            11 months ago

            I used to live like that, then I moved to a big city. Literally any event you want to go to is sold out six months to a year in advance. You have to make plans or you’ll never be able to attend anything. Even good restaurants are booked solid for 3 weeks. You either make reservations for next month, or you slip them $50 at the hostess station for a chance to eat, which is wasteful and douchey.

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          11 months ago

          Or vacations? Or family events? Or camping trips with friends? Music festivals? Conferences? Presentations, working group meetings, etc. for work?

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          11 months ago

          I’ve never had an issue of getting a doctor appointment within a couple of weeks. Dentists are the only one that keeps the very regular rhythm, and a have multiple reminders within the three weeks before so I can get time off.

          As I go to a lot of hard rock/metal shows every year, I’ve grown to dislike the idea of assigned seating and prefer to stand. Most are also lesser known, so I tend to be able to get my tickets the week of, if not the day before.

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      11 months ago

      No kidding. At least with writing in my dentist appointment that far out, I can plan around it, or reschedule if it conflicts. I know plenty of people though that just keep everything in a mental schedule, and they are constantly scrambling.

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        I do this all the time + my director level duties at work + raising a 3.5 year old.

        It’s quite easy to deal with and you just need to shift a few days if something comes up.

        It’s not like you are planning a full day a year out. It’s typically vacation or doctors appointment or birthday type event.

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      11 months ago

      I’m with you on this. Routine visits are always booked 6+ months in advance and I’d totally lose track if I didn’t keep a calendar for my life lol

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        You really should go every 4 months though. 6 is just what insurance is willing to cover.

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          11 months ago

          I go 5 days a week! I work in the dental field and enjoy all the perks ;-)

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            11 months ago

            I can honestly say that I’ve never known a dentist nor hygienist to work more than 4 days per week. Therefore, I assume you’re pulling my leg! /s (I really have never known a dental pro that works more than 4 days per week though.)

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              11 months ago

              The smart ones work 4 days a week! I work as an assistant in a larger practice with a few docs, so there’s always a doc in the house ;-)

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          11 months ago

          No? Get the sonic toothbrush and actually floss. Beyond that, just get some dental picks on Amazon for like $15. The checkup is just extra.

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            11 months ago

            I do and I do. I’d rather have a professional clean my teeth with picks. And it only cost like $25 and takes 30 min. And it’s not covered since it’s a 3rd cleaning.

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      11 months ago

      I have adhd so unfortunately my ability to manage time is literally handicapped. The further ahead something is scheduled, the more difficult it is for me to keep track of and remember.

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        11 months ago

        Nobody can remember months ahead, that’s why calendars exist.

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          11 months ago

          Yeah if calendar’s solved my problem it wouldn’t be called a disability.