I can’t decide who is more ridiculous out of this couple. Justin is a transphobic dating a trans woman. It is obvious he is repulsed by her. Nikki not only looks ridikkulous but is not right in the head for dating a transphobic guy and then thinks it somehow socially acceptable to meet his friends and immediately start complaining to them that Justin won’t eat her out. Kudos to the friend standing at the bar listening to all this without barfing into her drink.

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    Everything about Nikki borders on abusive to Igor.

    She lied about everything, slept with him when he was underage, which even with another adult is not allowing them to appropriately consent…… doesn’t even call him by his actual name, just decided his name should be Justin. And to top it all off has some really intense sexual expectations that she is not willing to compromise on, and seems to enjoy shaming him and manipulating him in public.

    Not to mention the lack of understanding of their cultural differences, which drives me crazy with 95% of these “couples”

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      I also wonder, is it truly transphobic for a man to struggle sleeping with the a trans woman? I think he seems to be really working on his complicated feelings surrounding that, given his culture and background— idk I think he’s trying, and it would be better for her to help him process his feelings about her genitalia in a kinder more understanding way? It’s strange to me that she seems more upset by his not wanting to go down on her than his nazi uniform??

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        I am so glad that you mentioned this. Both Justin and Nikki are in their masculine energies, no wonder Justin isn’t able to have sex with her comfortably. He seems like he needs someone who is gentle, soft, caring, feminine, someone soft. She is the complete opposite. It also seems like she enjoys being this way, and doesn’t understand why he is turned off by it. Everything about her is so aggressive and so blunt Even down to her pointy nails and her bold choice of clothing, and how she just portrays herself in public. Obviously, we’re just is from a significantly more conservative, but even where I am from in America people would probably turn their heads when they see someone like her given how much surgery she had and how out there she is.

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      I didn’t see their whole story line, and knew of an age difference but didn’t realize it was that big and that she’d slept with him before he was an adult. Combined with the name situation, holy shit.

      Just. Holy shit.

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      How can you be like “his real name is Igor! Gross! So I changed it to Justin” 😳 I think there’s a lost in translation thing because that seems so immature and disrespectful. It could be a family named passed from beloved relatives or just what his parents decided. How weird!

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        That’s what I’ve said before in other posts. His name was not his choice and it’s not ok to make fun of someone’s name. Like you said, it could be a family name that has great meaning to his ancestry. Changing his name because you don’t like his real one is just cringe.

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      She keeps going off on him for trying to hide her when it seems very obvious that he’s just trying to protect her in what seems like a very trans hostile conservative foreign country.

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        Her being transgender isn’t immediately obvious. what is obvious is the plastic surgery that’s given her an alien appearance that’s not quite human anymore.

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          She’s got to have some sort of fat transfer or something in her thighs right? They look like stuffed sausages. Like she’s really going for that Barbie look. Because where you’ll see a lot of BBLs don’t match their legs. Hers are just… inflated? Idk. I feel bad for people who have body dismorphia or whatever causes people to keep getting more and more surgery. 😩😩

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          When she said “I just got clocked!” Like they knew she was trans. No they just are seeing someone who looks like a 60year old who is getting wild amounts of surgery to try and look 47 (think that’s her age). The crazy amount of surgeries is what they “clocked” 🤦🏽‍♀️