• tomi000@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Damn how old is the average Lemmy user? The amount of people (allegedly) using and expecting perfect punctuation when texting scares me. I never put periods after one-liners except for nuance and if someone else does it looks weird. Depends on the person obviously, for example when my mom texts me I know I shouldnt put much thought into such details.

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        23 hours ago

        My parents or rarely messaged folks precede a message by “Hey [my name], <br> (Actual message content)”.

        It kinda tilts me as it’s a chat and not an email and I dislike the mixing of those two medium

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          13 hours ago

          If it’s my first message to someone or first message in a long time I’ll start by saying who I am just in case they’ve changed numbers or lost my contact info or whatever. But obviously I’m not going to do that every few weeks/months

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            12 hours ago

            That’s reasonable.
            My dad doesnt do that and preceeds every message chain with a greeting.
            He doesnt do it in a short term context but if a message is longer than (feels like 3 weeks), there will be a greeting.

            Not infuriating but it does kinda grind my gears ;)

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      1 day ago

      I assume we’re all over 40.

      Seems weird to me too, I first started texting around 2005 when I finally got a cell phone. When I saw full punctuation I felt like I was getting scolded.