Does anyone else have the experience of being in a relationship where you’re from different countries but you met and started a life in a third? And then you tried to live in either of your home countries but your relationship somehow works better when you’re in a third country?
Or am I alone in this? It’s a very strange existence.
I’m finding this to be true. In either of our countries, we just aren’t “in it together” in the same way and it’s too common to have one partner feel pressure to take care of everything (they know the system better) while the other partner feels isolated (because we always hangout with local partners’ local friends…
A third country puts us both on equal footing