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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • If your astute enough to have identified where your insecurity and abandonment issues come from then you should be able to begin solving the negative behaviors that are rooted there, not use them as a pass to act like a raging asshole.

    Sidenote: If she was three when her father left how come she knows all this stuff about how he never wanted her? Her mother told her that and probably used it to punish her for her bad behavior. “Your father would never want a bad girl like you.” Or “This behavior is why your father won’t come back”, etc. My grandmother is from Panama and guilting your children for their bad behavior is just what moms from that culture and from a certain older generation do. Yes this my opinions and not proven fact.