In case you’re in this situation in future, you can use section breaks before and after the page and give the middle section a different header/footer. It’s still not great because you can’t (to my knowledge) tie the section before to the section after so now you have to change both the first and third sections any time you want to adjust the main header/footer.
On top of that, the issue is that she can’t drive to work: if the US had halfway decent public transport she’d be able to keep the job and insurance
I don’t have thumbnails set on my phone so I only ever saw the full image. That said, I looked at it without my glasses with my arm outstretched and I’m going to guess they saw either buttcrack or titcleft
Even given that it is decorative, it doesn’t look like it would be good at chopping things. Cool though
Mercury would typically be measured in mm in metric and my brain just fully glossed over the inches part
This would have been just the first influence of the uncle, I’m glad girl got out relatively early. Ex’s dad hit the nail on the head, you take people as they are. If ex wants a woman who wears a headscarf, he should find one who already does that instead of expecting the white blonde Christians of the world to hop on board
Fucking GROSS dude. Kind of glossed over in the story but he rubbed his penis all over a picture of a child I guess? I would have some choice names to call him far more serious than Banana Nose
Seriously “your dad is a victim too” and “your dad deserved to hear how badly he fucked up” are not mutually exclusive ideas. OOP can feel more than one emotion towards their dad. Comments were wrong on this one
When did they add Frostmourne to the game? Need that mog ASAP
I know it’s not the point of the story but what are you doing just leaving 2.7k out in the public areas of your apartment?? Absolutely have a bit of cash around for emergencies, but not that much, spread it out a bit, and keep it mostly in your own room!
I tried, but there was this knot in my stomach the entire time I tried to pick a place to start. And maybe this is me being cruel, not giving her the benefit of the doubt, but it just didn’t feel right. She hadn’t come and said, “I was shocked because I realized how little I know about this time in your life. Would you be open to talking about it now?” Instead it felt like, “tell me what you saw in him so I can attempt to rationalize your orientation.” I told her I needed some time, so she went to stay elsewhere for the weekend.
The follow up comments later put me a bit more on OOP’s side but I dunno man, this is your fiancée, maybe extend a little generosity? It does speak to his other point about missing trust, security or love. If he’s not willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, the relationship seems doomed anyway.
Venue seems irrelevant here, she was trying to use it as a scapegoat I guess
How exactly was Sarah supposed to move on when he never changed his mind on her not being his real daughter? As he’s not her real father, he shouldn’t expect to walk her down the aisle either. Hopefully he’s out of their lives now anyway
I get wanting your kids to have bond with adults as aunts and uncles, but it’s only part of the picture. Don’t you want them to bond with cousins? Don’t you want to be an aunt to their kids too? Weird situation. I wonder if there is a plan for guardianship if they pass out if they’ve chosen godparents. Perhaps this is also an interview process
Yes I did mix up the order of the words cause of poor sleep. Thanks for correcting
My favourite language joke:
What’s the difference between a cat and a comma?
One’s got claws at the end of its paws, the other’s a pause at the end of a clause
*fixed order
Absolutely wild response when he could spend substantially less on a new tube of toothpaste and some face cream. Maybe have a chat with the wife and see if she’d be ok asking the front desk about new rooms. No, leaving them is an unfamiliar city is the correct response somehow
OOP kept doing the same thing and was all out of ideas. Tons of great suggestions in the comments.
That said husband needs to be a better partner. If this is important to OOP it should be important to him too, whether he understands it or not, whether he values photos himself or not.
it’s just so crazy to think that all of this could’ve been avoided if I hadn’t accepted the flower
Oh honey no, the mask would have slipped over something else. The fact that he couldn’t make it through a couple of days before the beach incident tells you as much
3 years old, suspended OOP account, doubt we’ll learn how it turns out 😭