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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • You’re right, BUT many need it and won’t admit to it.

    I mean, why is he so shady and quiet about his life? How would you respond if your future husband/wife isn’t going out of their way to introduce you to their kid and actively encourage some kind of relationship. And what’s more crazy is that she speaks his language fluently. So there no awkward language barrier.

    Culturally, there’s lots of barriers, so that’s on him to at least tell her about certain thing even if she can’t wrap her head around it.

    Exhibit A: my children, parents and other family members depend on me to pay the bills and other life expenses. When I come to Rochester it’s important that we figure out a way for me to continue sending the money I usefully provide for them.

    If you can’t communicate shit like this because “it’s my business” than it’s also 100% your business to find a way to financially support your family while in the us. He sucks at communicating because any good parent would prioritize this conversation months before the visa was approved……




  • She definitely has skills. She was a TEACHER. We at least know that’s he speaks 2 languages. In the US, that’s definitely an advantage when job hunting.

    I think she could easily get into the beauty or hair industry with the amount of fake she has and launch a successful business while her name is HOT right now.

    **And I don’t know about y’all, but I’m honestly not sure what a teacher’s salary is in her country and how valuable an educator is. In the us educators (even with a masters or higher) is undervalued and underpaid.