Err how many quests do you make someone go on before you’ll sleep with them? Because for me, two very dangerous quests involving swords and magic would be plenty.

Totally agree with this. Sanitising your memories just makes them feel authentic and enforces the idea that you are the only important thing in any location you’re in. We exist in a busy world with other people, let’s not pretend otherwise. That feels unhelpful and unhealthy.