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  • That’s really a question you need to answer for yourself but everyone has issues. The fact that you are self aware of them means you know when they happen and can do things to control it better.

    I don’t think you need to introduce yourself with a warning, you deserve to have privacy and boundaries while you deal with your issues and heal, but if you feel safe enough with someone to open up to them, you can explain what you’re struggling with, and in normal casual relationships, you can use that self awareness to control your issues.

    Nobody’s perfect, everyone has flaws, you’re clearly not a malicious person if you’re here asking this, you’re someone who is struggling with some issues. But you recognize those issues and want to deal with them, that’s a huge step a lot of people don’t even get to.




  • Yes, you should cut toxic people out of your life. That doesn’t mean that every relationship on the planet is toxic and should be avoided. People who get amputation don’t just say “I didn’t even need that arm”. They get prosthetics, they go through physical therapy to try and adapt without the arm.

    The difference here is unlike an arm, if a friendship doesn’t work out, you can make new friends. If you prefer being alone, there’s nothing wrong with that, but there’s a big difference between saying “I prefer to be alone” and “all relationships are bad and should be avoided”




  • I live in America but I’m fairly disconnected from everything that’s happening because I live in a very isolated area living a fairly isolated life. However from everything I’m hearing from the news, if I was in your position, I would not step foot here. The worst people imaginable are running the country and it’s genuinely not safe for even the people already living here.

    I definitely would not give them any of the information you listed, that’s insane. These people cannot be trusted.

    Unless it’s of vital life and death importance that you come here, it’s not worth the risk right now. Hopefully MAGA dies and sane people start running the country again, but right now I cannot in good consciousness recommend that you come here.


  • A romantic partner is one type of relationship often with the extra weight of that person being a romantic partner. A romantic partner ideally is a life partner you want to share the entirety of your life with. It’s a lot heavier than a friend.

    A romantic partner is someone special who you will be spending the vast majority of your time with. Someone who you might star a family with.

    A friend is less heavy, more casual. A friend is someone who you ideally can trust and talk to and who will support you and you them, but is not someone you are physically attracted to, or has an interest in being romantic with you or vice versa.

    A healthy romantic partnership usually starts off as a friendship, and then over time turns into a romantic one. You can’t just meet a stranger and say "let’s spend our entire lives together, and have a family, and live together. At least not a romantic partnership you want to actually work.


  • Do you need friends, as in you will die without them? No. They are not essential to life. But humans are social creatures and having someone in your life that you feel safe enough to open up to, who can share in your interests and hobbies and who can be there for you when you are not doing good, is an extremely good thing to have.

    Like I can totally survive without my left arm but life is going to be a lot more difficult. Same kind of concept but with mental health.








  • I think saying that America just hates children is a bit of a stretch there. In fact I think it’s missing the point entirely.

    I can’t speak for the whole of America, only myself and the other people I know, but most of us would love to slow down, start a family, have someone to nurture, teach, pass down our own interests and skills to. We can’t.

    The economy is in shambles, the people in control are comedically evil. Ffs the majority of the people running the united states are more than likely on the epstein list. Everyone is living paycheck to paycheck, nobody can afford a house to actually properly raise a child in.

    Nobody is having children right now because things are so bad here, nobody can afford to have a child, and even if they could, given how bad things are globally, nobody wants to bring a child into this world.

    The system is so cruel to children because the people who run the system are profoundly corrupt, do not have the childrens best interests in mind, and want to make sure our next generation is as uninformed and easy to control as possible

    Now if you’re asking why most adults don’t hang out with kids, it should be pretty obvious why that is. They’re kids. Adults who are not their caregivers or in their lives have no business hanging out with them. I would be very concerned if my kid asked if his buddy could hang out and that person was q full grown man.

    I’m sure there’s people out there who genuinely dislike children, but it’s pretty shortsighted to say “every single person in the country must hate children if these people do”



  • Well considering that’s an Ai image and everyone in it looks like the same dude in different desguises, I can’t really give you an accurate answer.

    • if you want me to go by the picture you posted, then your parents are deeply afraid that your friends are all just one guy who has consumed and assimilated multiple people and is pretending to be your friend in order to lure you into a secondary location to assimilate you as well, and are debating in private whether to call a priest or the military.

    • if you want an actual answer, I can’t really give you one because this is a generic Ai image and not something that can be used for a real basis for a grounded human answer.

    In fact given that you used Ai to portray a friend group, my mind immediately wonders if you actually have any friends at all and this is all a deeply sad and unsettling way to farm imaginary internet points.

    My personal headcanon is that you are the thing assimilating other people as you feed and grow and are posting here to desensitize us to your unsettling presence to make us easier to consume later.