I am from Brazil and my partner is Romanian. He never had a relationship before me, only some hook ups but that was his own decision. But having interacted with other Romanians through my partner’s social circle I can tell most Romanian men enjoy having a long term relationship, finding a partner for life. That can be very hard, but coming from S.A. we are very used to romantic relationships occurring naturally.
I’ll share with you something that I see in Brazilian men that always have good relationships, like my brother, and friends. They don’t look for relationships most of the time. They prioritize their hobbies and when they feel like they want a female presence they go to social gatherings like clubs, pubs, or even sport events depending what is it that they enjoy. There they find females that interest them, approach them somehow (use their charm, smile, and be straight forward), take their number, and they move on, wether the girl said yes or no they just keep living their lives, only when their agenda is empty that they will look for the girl (my brother for an example used to have 8 girls in his “list” - this is what his ex gf told me when they used to be together). So I think what Brazilian men do is they make themselves seem more valuable, kinda like real estate, the more people wanting that piece of land the more valuable will be. But they don’t necessarily tell the girls about each other, but Brazilian girls are very nosy so we will know. But the point is, they feel wanted, so this boost their confidence. And my brother only got into long term relationships. All the girlfriends wanted to marry him. Right now he has a gf for more than 10 years and they’re going steady. She was introduced to him by his friends though, but it took him many years to actually make a good circle of friends that could introduce the girl of his life to him. And even so he doesn’t want to marry yet lol.
So my advice is try to make your life more interesting by doing things that you enjoy, when you feel happy you are more confident and attractive, this will help you attract girls that are in sync with you. And be open minded because in europe people are so divisive, obviously people have different cultures but if the attraction is there nothing will get in the way.
Good luck!
That is, in the way you date? How is that going for you? I really think OP needs some boost of confidence, because it’s impossible that dating is that hard in a country so diverse like the UK… Don’t you think?