This is fascinating! I thought it was just me - I always got a rash with pads. I’ve been using menstrual cups for years now and never want to go back to disposables.

There are TONS of travel blogs and resources that can guide you. Figure out where you want to go and do some research. Do targeted google searches like “14 day trip Germany, France, Italy” or whatever you want and most likely someone has blogged about it on the internet. Look at Lonely Planet or Rick Steves (he’s targeted for an American audience, but has TONS of content on Europe). https://www.ricksteves.com/europe

Another option is to borrow and tailor itineraries from places like this: https://www.responsibletravel.com/ They give detailed itineraries, but like another person said, aren’t exactly what you’re looking for. If they’re already giving me an itinerary, I’d much rather rearrange it how I like it, rather than have to explain what I want, go back and forth with a travel agent, and pay more for something that is already mostly done for me.

Something like this can easily be edited to reflect the time you have available and what you want to do: https://www.responsibletravel.com/holiday/4084/berlin-to-venice-small-group-holiday.

Honestly, I’d just visit. Maybe bring something small - candy to share and eat while you’re there, for example - but nothing big or lots of one thing. I’ve asked friends for one package of Big Red gum, for example, and they come with 2 cases of it. I don’t have room for all that, nor want it. I’d respect her wishes.