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Cake day: May 17th, 2025

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  • Gonna be real with you chief -

    Somebody should have probably stopped me from going to LoversLab as a teenager and seeing beastiality and necrophilia.

    There’s a middle ground. While the government probably isn’t in the position to figure it out, the abundance of extreme porn that is completely accessible to kids is not good either.







  • There’s a lot of reasons why someone might ask you to stop, and the critical thing is that you do so immediately and check in.

    It can start hurting - maybe you hit a wrong angle, maybe there isn’t enough lube. There can also be triggers associated with sex, psychological aspects where a stray thought, a brief smell or feeling, can make things not fun in the moment. Maybe you are pressing on your partner in a way that starts to feel uncomfortable or cramp. Being penetrated can feel intense and overwhelming, and sometimes it’s possible to slip from fun to not fun out of nowhere.

    Making sure that your partner knows that you will stop if asked is critical to helping them feel safe.



  • I like it quite a bit. I have a lot of anonymous/casual encounters, so I don’t get to enjoy a guy finishing in me very often, but sometimes I enjoy having a guy finishing on my ass (rarely face, I’m usually masked.)

    The appeal is degradation. I’d love to set up a bukkake someday. It’s a mark of some sort of “ownership” which goes with my kink of belonging to all men. Cum inside also physically feels great, having a guy pull out and feel it leaking is very fun.

    I don’t think my sex life is very comparable to an “average person” though.




  • I have a little bit of a “cis male supremacy” kink, which would be problematic if I took it “seriously.” Kinks are all about working with problematic ideas and trying to reclaim them for fun. I think adding in the “consent” aspect covers your bases.

    Kinda like when I’m servicing cis men - if they start with the idea that I’m inferior without checking that it’s okay, that’s a no go. After we talk about it - hell yes call me a pathetic little fake boy. I’m confident as a man, but submitting to “real” men with their superior cocks is great. It’s fun to imagine that I am biologically ordained to be a three holed slut, a natural bottom due to my anatomy. It’s not inherently “true” but it gets my dicklet standing at attention.