I really love the idea of getting face fucked/serving orally, but I struggle with jaw pain/lock ups if I go for more than a minute or so.
I can do licking it like a lollipop for a bit, but I’m not sure that’s wowing anyone.
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It’s already been said but I’m going to stress it: have your TMJ checked.
A simple x-ray exam will be enough to determine if whatever is causing you discomfort has an organic reason, at the bone structure level.
Does your jaw pop or locks or catches if you yawn for too long? If so, you may have a disaligned joint or be suffering from some joint condition.
If not, you may have something bothering you at the tendons/muscles level.
Hopefully, it is something you can work around, with gradual exercise.
One word of advice: ball gags or those implements used to keep the mouth open are to be avoided. Those put the joint, muscles and tendons under pressure. My best compliments to those who use it but it does horrors to the joints.
Had a doc diagnose me when I was a teenager, but had my medical care taken away as punishment. Was supposed to have some form of surgery, but idk if I’ll ever afford it. Mostly Looking for coping mechanisms
Putting it bluntly: you can’t.
If it’s to the point of requiring surgery - although what is deemed as surgery requiring varies from place to place - there is no work aroud, no coping mechanisms.
That narrow of a time window, on my own personal experience, tells your condition is pretty serious.
Does your jaw clicks when you eat or talk?
Maybe some physical therapy can ease you a bit. A good therapist may even work on the information you may give them, from what you remember from when you were diagnosed.
Ball gags, or anything that forces your jaw open, are off the table. I’m making some guess work here but I think you have an higher than average risk of getting your jaw locked if you force it. I can’t describe to you how painful that is and how even more painful it is to have it reset.
I respect your fantasy/fetish/kink but you are better off putting this one to rest.
Give what you can and whoever complains about it can go fuck themselves. And reading what you’ve posted, you grant a great joy ride for a lot of lucky dudes.
I sincerely wish you can prove all of my worst expectations wrong, without endangering yourself in the process. And hope to read about if it ever happens.
Stay strong.
Well, the general advice is plenty of warming up, and practice.
Largely though, it kinda depends on the root cause. If it’s from arthritis, there’s limits to how much warming up is going to do.
If it’s something that’s purely muscular, or stems from something like fibromyalgia, you have a much better chance of eventually finding a way to enjoy longer sessions of triggering activity. In those cases, one of the usual muscle relaxers can help, but you’d need to loop your doctor in (though not necessarily in detail).
You can also save it for long, thin penises. Not exactly something you can rely on, but it would be more bearable, so you could go longer.
If it isn’t medical it is practice. It will take months of consistent practice and going at it.
I get the jaw locking issue from deepthroating or from holding my head at weird angles. It’s a shame because I love sucking dick and it’s one of the few sexual activities I can do reliably without discomfort, but generally I just suck the head. Perhaps a system of restraints, like a dental gag or ring gag + rope, would solve the issue. I’ve never used an open-mouth gag but it’s definitely on my wishlist.
Probably worth mentioning to a doctor or dentist (don’t have to mention the BJ part - just that you get lockjaw). Sometimes there are things that can be done.
I have a small mouth. Like you are gonna be hitting teeth, there is not much room. Blowjobs are better when more like sloppy hand jobs IMO. Guys usually say it feels better, and it’s easier on my jaw. (If my hands are tied, that is just gonna be more like face fucking but dude is going to hit teeth, but as that’s usually a heightened and dramatic situation, they don’t care, and I figure it helps them moderate.)
My advice if you want to go longer though is hands. Not a tight grip either. But a gentle touch, spitty handjob with your mouth working as much as is sustainable for you.
