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Cake day: November 20th, 2023

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  • I think more reserved cultures can easily be seen as cold or rude by people who aren’t used to this. But that doesn’t mean it’s true. It’s just that the codes for social interactions are different and can be perceived as rude to those who don’t know the codes. This is my experience with Norway. I’ve heard a few people call Norwegians cold and rude, but I think politeness and friendship just works differently here that where I grew up. For example asking for something without saying please is extremelyrude where I grew up but fine in Norway. But there are other polite phrases I never think of saying because they weren’t part of what people say where I grew up. (Cold and rude people exist as well of course, but I wouldn’t call a culture cold and rude.)