Yes, twice, in my early twenties. I was single and it was something I wanted to try. I had money I did not need to live and could put towards futile things. And both times were complete disasters.
The first was out of the spur of the moment. The escort was an older woman, cold, distant and sincerely rude. It felt obviously mechanical and detached. I barely managed to get erect and did not finish. It was paid disappointment.
The second time, I took the time and patience to call some escorts and check if the posture was more in tune with what I was looking for. I eventually found a person within my age range, that at least seemed nice and welcoming. I made an appointment and went. I got a nice shower, followed by a massage, but again something felt off.
When I looked into that woman’s eyes, which I still had not touched, I felt horrible about myself. An abuser. I apologized, got dressed and excused myself. What it has remained with me up until this day was a passing comment from her that I was “not bad at all”, as I got undressed. I’m plain, unremarkable. I can’t imagine the men she had already catered to.
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A friend of mine has been a prostitute. She said it was the most fulfilling and fun job she has ever had. She loved all the different kinds of people she met. Plus being able to get tax rebates on underwear was nice.
Years after my two failed experiences I met with a former school colleague and after a long night and a few drinks, reminiscing of what had happened in our lives up to that moment, I had the honour to be confided that she was an escort.
She was adamant on how she had been lucky and how so many girls she’d met throughout the years had had terrible fates, to depression, alcohol, drugs, etc. She enjoyed what she did, it had allowed her to reach things she otherwise would have never been able to, including a college education, in an area she was passionate about, in the school she had always wanted, but a slight mistep and she could have had the same fate as others.
Yes, couple of times. I have had normal sex witch I enjoyed, but I also had BDSM which I enjoyed most. Escorts have the good thing where if you have a fetish, its a place to actually do it. The workers understand and are more than happy to do something.
For regular straight sex, I had bit of chat in the beginning, get to know each other, have a bath and then in the bed slowly getting into sex! I also had to read reviews, because some workers tend to be wasting your time, doing 2-3 things for 1-2 hours and then they send you away.
For the bdms one, same thing I walked in, had 10-15 minutes about fetishes, then get naked and start as discussed. One of the few sessions, was to be a basement slave, with lots of strapon sacking, anal, whipping with a bull type, spanking and lots of psycho whispering. Another one a tinder date which turned wrong, and ended with whipping, anal etc.Does Amsterdam Windows count? If so then yes. It wasn’t the best experience but I was drunk and high, she seemed happy enough. Struggle to finish when I’m drunk so it ended with a handjob while another worker sat on the bed and they spoke in a language I didn’t understand.
I do consider using a service to experience some fantasies I don’t think I’ll get in a normal relationship, I’ll wait to see what the future holds
Took a friend there once; he started off all cocky like “yeah I’ll just chat her up and get a discount”
He goes off and turns out he went in and paid a 100, she starts getting him hard and then goes “another 100 for fucking” lol
He came back happily defeated.
