Not talking about something like a white thong under light pants as a fashion choice, but more about the way pantylines show through in ways that can get unflattering?
Or is this just something men care about?

    • otter@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      44·
      2 months ago

      Even better, drop the boomery gender BS and just refer to them both as members of their species, for starters. 😅☝🏼

      eg. “A person shouldn’t cause discomfort to another, and if they opt to do so, they should first be aware of the consequences of that choice —for all parties.”

      and

      “A person can wear whatever they feel like, and no one has the ‘right’ to comment on it, regardless if it’s a critique or compliment.”

      IMHO, “We’re lucky when they consent to our awareness of it, and luckier still in that moment when there is no underwear.” can stay, though. 🤘🏼

        • otter@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          36·
          2 months ago

          Let’s sit a while with what you’ve just said. Deflection, to hyperbole, to shame, to plea. At least, thematically. Who knows what lies beneath your own surface, but that’s for no one but you to suss out. 🖖🏼

  • notalannister@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    6·
    2 months ago

    I’m not a woman, but by talking from time to time with the women I know (my GF, some friends and my sister), sometimes it’s unavoidable. They tend to buy underwear made with certain fabrics that doesn’t show as much as cotton panties with very thick borders. But also, from time to time, they pick certain underwear they know will give VPL as long as it looks sexy

  • altman@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    6·
    2 months ago

    Or is this just something men care about?

    I don’t think most others would care. I don’t think it’s something to care about. Calling it unflattering is a bit of a judgement. I would say this is something that women don’t really need to spend any time thinking about and neither do men.

  • kboos1@lemmy.worldEnglish
    32·
    2 months ago

    I think it’s just something YOU care about and you’re the reason women can’t wear practical clothes or have real pockets on pants and have to be worried about panty lines. Stop worrying about panty lines and go worry about something that matters.