Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.
For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!
I’m basically a “switch” when it comes to sharing. I like the idea of getting cucked, of being more dominant where I basically control who, when, and how she fucks, or in the middle (threesomes, etc).
You could look into Stag & Vixen or just plain swinging/swapping. Not sure if there’s a name for the man being dominant while sharing his sub wife. For whatever reason, the cuck kink just dominates when it comes to porn and online kink culture.
I do really like the idea of being dominant and basically humiliating her instead by turning her into nothing but a fucktoy for other guys for my entertainment. I also really like when she takes control and dominates me mentally and emotionally too.
I recently learned about the stag and vixen terms while looking into the same question. It is nice to have a word for it.
I also enjoy some dominance of my partners when having sex with other people, just as I do in other sexual contexts. But my most prominent feeling when my partners have had sex with other people, with or without my involvement, has just been a joyous “Hell yeah, we got some! Go team!”